Q: I recently had Anal sex for the first time with my boyfriend. We both wanted to do it but he came really quickly. This isn’t a problem with vaginal sex. Is there any way we could slow this down? Is this normal?

A: Yes what happened is normal. The desire alone would be enough to make most guys cum more quickly, add to that how tight your anus is compared to your pussy. The poor lad didn’t have a chance. And the answer to your problem is simple, if you continue to have Anal sex he will last longer and you both will enjoy it more. Persistance is key. He’s just caught up in the excitement of banging an anal virgin. But here’s a tip I’d like to share with you (and make sure you don’t tell this to men), I use anal sex as a “tool” in situations where I’m not in the mood for sex and just want to get it over with. It’s a surefire way to get you bf to blow his load within minutes. The only other technique that even gets close is deep throat oral sex. But you’ve got to be really skilled to pull that off. Otherwise it’ll have the opposite effect and draw things out unnecessarily. Anal sex is my speed orgasm technique of choice. For more in-depth advice and articles check out my website Cumtrainer.com

I saw this over at an adult forum I read every day. No clue about its source.

10 Worst Blowjob Mistakes

1..The number one blowjob mistake: letting your teeth scrape along his cock.

We can’t stress this enough. Ask any guy and he’ll tell you again and again: nothing is worse than a blowjob that is all teeth. In fact, most guys won’t admit it, but their idea of a perfect blowjob would be getting sucked off by a gorgeous woman with removable dentures. Teeth can nick and scrape the sensitive skin of the penis. Open your mouth wide enough that they stay away from his cock, or suck your lips in over them to cushion the rough edges. If he’s wearing a condom during the blowjob this may provide a slight buffer, but don’t count on it.

2.. Going too fast

Some guys enjoy a quickie, but unless they’re in a hurry to get back to work or back to their wife/girlfriend, most men like to savor the experience of getting their cock sucked. So don’t rush them. It’s not a race to see how fast you can get him to spurt. Take your time and make it last. Concentrate on different parts of his penis, or his balls, then go back to basic sucking and stroking. At the end of a luxuriant BJ session, he’ll blow a much larger, more satisfying load.

3.. Sucking too hard

Hoovering him like a dustbuster may seem like a good idea in theory, but there’s a wrong way to do it. Don’t fasten your mouth around the head of his cock and suck like you’re trying to get a triple-thick milkshake though a straw. Guys’ dickheads are the most sensitive part of the penis, and uncut guys are even more sensitive there. The proper technique to hoover is to take more of his cock into your mouth and apply moderate suction.

4.. Crushing his nuts

Don’t grab his balls and squeeze like you’re trying to crack walnuts. This is a move you want to pull on a would-be rapist, not a guy you’re trying to get off. It’s painful. Many guys like to have their sack rubbed, licked, or gently tugged during a bj. You can even take a break from sucking his cock to take one or both of his balls into your mouth. But don’t yank on the family jewels, and don’t put them in a vise grip.

5.. Barfing and gagging

Throwing up while giving a bj is definitely a turn-off, although sometimes this happens to the most well-intentioned cocksuckers. What happens is they get overenthusiastic, take the cock too deep or hard into their throat, the gag reflex gets triggered, and then it’s all over. Or once the cum starts hitting the back of her throat, things start flowing the wrong way. Don’t try to deep throat on your first BJ. Everyone will be sorry. Practice to get your gag-reflex under control.

6.. Remaining immobile

Putting his cock in your mouth and then doing nothing is as bad as overdoing it. Most guys don’t want to feel like they’re face-fucking a cadaver. You need to work it at least a little. A total lack of effort or enthusiasm on your part is a real buzz kill. If you don’t know what to do with your tongue, at least bob your head. After a while, he may want to take a more active role and have you relax while he fucks your mouth, but you need to give him a little encouragement to get him aroused.

7.. Not using enough pressure

Wimpy blowjobs are no fun. Be firm and suck him like you mean it. Lapping his dick lightly will just make him feel teased. Licking his dick like it’s a lollipop or popsicle may be fun to get warmed up, but then you have to get down to business. Use a firm (but not too firm) hand to work the shaft of his cock, while you get your mouth all over his knob and caress it with your tongue.

8.. Spitting

Most guys want you to swallow and think that a BJ really isn’t complete until his load goes down your throat. The only exception is if he gets off more on spraying it on your face, tits, or somewhere else. If you really don’t want to swallow, this can be an acceptable compromise. Symbolically, swallowing shows that you accept him and his manly essence fully. Although we can’t endorse unprotected bodily fluid exchange in any form, if you happen to be giving an unprotected blowjob (i.e., without a condom) and you end up with his spunk in your mouth, do not retch his cum into a wastebasket in front of him. If you really feel you must spit, do it discreetly into a towel or tissue.

9.. Dry mouth

A good BJ involves a lot of saliva. Don’t be afraid to get a little sloppy and drool on his cock. If your mouth is dry from nervousness or whatever, there will be too much friction and stickiness to give good head. If your mouth is dry, drink some water and rinse. Try to work up a good mouthful of spit before you go down. Suck on a hard candy to get your juice flowing, or suck on an Altoid to give him a mentholated BJ.

10.. Stranglehold

Don’t put his cock in a deathgrip. It’s fine to wrap a hand around the shaft, but don’t clench and for god’s sake, watch the nails. Just hold it enough to keep it from flopping around and shuck his pole with your hand while you work him with your mouth. His dick shouldn’t have a handprint on it when you’re done.

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Q: My new girlfriend’s pussy smells bad. Is there something wrong with her and how do I bring it up? She gives me oral and I want return the favour as I like giving oral and have been told by ex g/f’s that im good at it! I really like her, any advice much appreciated.

A: Why not ask her to have a bubble bath with you? Start caressing her body with the soap ask her to wash your body and not to miss anything as it really turns you on and would be so lovely then return the favour to her. Thats a nice way of doing it. She might not be aware of the problem. Another way to bring it to her attention is play with her down there, then bring your fingers up to her cheek as if you are about to hold her face with both hands and if she gets a wiff well there you go.

Vaginal odor can be caused by several factors. The most common cause is vaginal bacterial overgrowth known as bacterial vaginosis, which has a “fishy” or “musty” smell. “Fishy” smells can also result from vaginal infections, such as trichomonas vaginalis, and, in some women, from semen in the vagina. The vagina could also smell “yeasty” because of vaginal yeast infections.

Synthetic underwear, pantyhose, tights, and Spandex exercise clothes do not allow air to circulate around the vulva (the outer lips of the vagina). A moist environment promotes overgrowths of normal skin bacteria that could cause vaginal odor.

A physical exam by a health care provider can determine whether or not the odor is being caused by something that is treatable with a medication, such as for bacterial vaginosis, trichomonas, and yeast. In these cases, the unpleasant smell usually goes away after the treatment.

Okay, so my boyfriend shaves his cock and balls every other day, and he seems to enjoy it. I know that some of you guys may ask yourself why a guy would want to shave his dick, and this is a valid question. There are several reasons for this practice, and I will try to explain them. One great reason to shave your dick is that when a girl is giving you a blowjob, she won’t need to stop as much to pull loose hairs out of her teeth or off her tongue (Sound familiar?). This allows you to get an uninterrupted blowjob, and she’ll be much happier going down on a cock that doesn’t have an Afro surrounding it. Another good reason – at least that’s what I’ve been told - is that when you shave your manhood, it’s supposed to feel cooler in the summertime. As you can imagine, having less hair means less sweat, which in turn means less body odor. The third and best reason for shaving your bat and balls is that it makes your dick look bigger. You can trust me on that one. I know that you guys with 12-inch dicks don’t need much help, but the average male needs all the help he can get in this department. Shaving your schlong gives the appearance of at least an extra inch or maybe two if you’re a freak. Just kidding. - But it’s true. Think about it: An inch of extra dick that she can feast her eyes upon for absolutely free!

Now unless you want the bald eagle look, I will just give you a little advice on how to clean the area up. All we are going for is a clean shaft and a little clearing so she can truly appreciate the fruit of your loins before swallowing your cock. First you’re going to need some shaving gel to make the shave less harsh. The brand doesn’t matter, as I’ve tried several myself and couldn’t tell you one from the other. Just buy one for sensitive skin or if you’re secure with your sexuality, purchase a shaving cream made for specifically for “feminine usage”. The second thing you will need is a brand-new disposable razor. This is your best friend we are talking about here so don’t be cheap and pick up a pack of generic razors for $1.50 for 30. It’s doable with cheap ones, but I’ve tried those 3-bladed razors myself and I really think they work best. It’s also much less work. Just make sure you stay away from straight razors…

You’re going to start by lathering your cock and balls up good while letting the shaving gel set a while. This will soften the hair, which will make for an easier shave. Lather your shaft and all around it thoroughly until your hair feels soft and ready to shave. Now take the razor and grab the head of your penis with the other hand. Either pull the cock down or sideways out of the way so you can see what you’re doing. Stroke the razor carefully along the shaft TOWARDS the head of the penis, rinsing the blade after every stroke. I repeat, rinse the blade frequently! Usually I’d say there’s about an inch of hairy shaft to be taken care of - the rest should be smooth and hairless anyway. After getting the dick/shaft smoothed out, continue around each side to your balls always going IN the direction of hair growth not against it. If a patch of hair grows “upwardsâ€? and you stroke down you’re very likely to cut yourself. Once you get to your balls shaving in the “rightâ€? direction isn’t really important anymore.

You can finish up by doing your nuts last. Gently draw the razor over the skin always trying to keep it taut. I’ve seen my boyfriend grab and squeeze his scrotum so the balls stretch out the skin from the inside. Looked painful but he said it wasn’t. You probably know better anyway. A super close shave is not all that important here, the desired amount of hair left is up to you. Some like a bald egg, while others want some peach fuzz left for her to play with. The hairs here are generally much finer and therefore kissable even after a few days growth, so don’t be too precise. Be careful when shaving your nut sack however: Your balls are a virtual minefield of bumps and wrinkles. It’s definitely best to take your time. Or as the old saying goes, “if you’re in a hurry, don’t put a razorblade on your ballsâ€?.

I know what you are asking… “Does it itch?!” Not as bad as you might think. Actually, at first you will want to shave at least every day or two until you skin becomes accustomed to the change. It’s now experiencing a change in routine, so you’ll have to get it trained until there is no more irritation. I’ve personally never had to use any products after a shave, but I imagine a good face cream or some kind of antibacterial ointment could alleviate any initial discomfort you might feel. If you like to live dangerously you could try dabbing a little alcohol-free (!) aftershave on the area for nice scent, and a soothing sensation. Another tip to avoid irritation is to gently use a loofah body scrub sponge when bathing/showering. Loofah is great for removing dead skin cells which is the cause of ingrown hairs and itching.

After a week or so of shaving, it will probably feel as natural as shaving your face. Once the “training” is over, you’ll be able to concentrate more on creaming HER face than you do on lathering cream on your cock. This is a simple process with dramatic results. For a little added excitement after you learn how to be a pro cock shaver, invite her to join in. The couple that shaves together stays together! Or so they say.

Q: Britney, what are your views on hairy men? I’m not just talking about their private area. I mean on their bums and backs. What are your views? For some reason I find it a turn on. (question sent in by Sondra)

A: I also love moderatly hairy men. I draw the line at apes though lol. My current bf is hairy and I find it a complete turn on, although alot of women I know don’t like it. I must admit I love a hairy chest, stomach and legs, and I absolutly love it when a man has a bit of stubble despite the stubble rash. But I do draw the line at a hairy back. Not really sexy. Another thing I prefer is a shaved scrotum, mainly because I really need to see what I’m sucking on. Like most men (and unlike many women) I too am very visual in my sexuality and I need to see stuff in order to get aroused. A decent sized cock can look really small if it’s hidden in a crotch-afro. I think I just made up a word. Anyway, I’ll post a more in-depth article on this topic called “shaving for a better blowjob” in the next couple of days. Stay tuned.

Found this little list on the web a while ago and I agree with those statements for the most part. I took the liberty of deleting the really silly bits (saving trees by not using paper tissues) but there are still some interesting points here I’d like to share.

Why Swallow?
1) It’s Tidy:
Spitting is, quite simply, messy. Having a paper towel at the ready
can help, but even then, you have a cum-soaked towel to dispose of.
Same is true if he comes somewhere other than inside your mouth,
there’s plenty of sticky jizm to wipe up. Just swallow and there’s
no muss or fuss.

2) It Lets the Man Relax:
If a man has to worry about coming, feeling that it is an imposition
on the woman or the cause of unpleasantness, it creates tension
while receiving the blowjob. He cannot fully relax, and cannot fully
enjoy his climax. A woman who swallows both puts her partner at
ease. Also, she can continue sucking through the orgasm, “sucking
him dry”, which men find both physically and emotionally satisfying.

3) The Symbolism of Swallowing:
In Western culture, swallowing has deep symbolic significance. The
act of swallowing signals acceptance, blessing, and complete
transformation. Imagine spitting out champagne after a toast or
spitting out the wafer during communion. The insult and sacrilege
would be overwhelming. In the same way, spitting out cum is a
symbolic rejection to many men. By swallowing, a woman indicates complete acceptance. The semen becomes part of her, he becomes part of her.

4) It’s Polite:
To quote one woman: “What sort of message does that convey to
immediately run to the nearest sink to spit? I’m comfortable enough
to get down on my knees and wrap my lips around your cock, but not
comfortable enough to swallow the fruits of my labor? I know I’d be
offended if my boyfriend ran to the bathroom to gargle with
mouthwash after going down on me. So, sure I swallow. It’s almost
impolite not to.”

Gallery info: The pics in this post we’re taken right before the 40 Loads cumdrinking shoot. Kind of a “warm up” session. If you haven’t seen the 40 Loads post yet, check it out here.

Does sperm always taste the same?
Hell no. There are many different flavors. Basically it’s always salty but depending on your partner’s diet the taste may range from bitter to sweet. You don’t need a group of men to experience the full range even the cum from one single guy can change greatly from day to day.

They say that habits like smoking and drinking greatly influence the taste of someone’s ejaculate. For the worse, that is. Rumor has it, that pineapple and asparagus improve the taste but I’ve never been able to verify that claim. Why not try it out on yourself and ask for your girlfriend’s opinion? One thing I do know though, is that once semen gets into contact with air (oxygen?) and starts to cool off it usually tastes a lot worse than „fresh“.

That’s why I prefer a direct shot into my mouth, definitely the yummiest alternative. In situations where a guy comes on my boobs or on my face and I have to wipe it into my mouth I can tell that it’s more bitter and tastes a little stale. But I’m not complaining, I’d rather lick it off the floor than not get any at all. Just saying, cum degrades quickly once it’s out in the open.

Gallery postscript: These pics are really old and from a series called Funnel Cum which I did when I’d just started out in porn - many thousands of years ago. Show of hands please: Who likes the blond wig?

Is it dangerous to swallow large quantities of cum?
I suppose any kind of “too much” is problematic, no matter if it’s booze, sweets, vitamins or whatever. I don’t think you can overdose on semen though. When I drank the 40 loads of cum in my classic 2001 video I did start to feel sick about 30 minutes later and I had to puke.

I am convinced thought that I’d have had exactly the same reaction to let’s say 10 egg whites. See my point, eggs aren’t really dangerous or poisonous either. I guess it just depends on how much a person can stomach. We all know there are women out there who start gagging at the taste of one single drop of pre-cum. I’m definitely not one of those, but I admit that after maybe 5 loads my stomach usually does tend to feel a bit queasy.

There are hardly any side effects to ingesting semen, the only thing I noticed is that I often get a case of the squirts the next day. Excuse my language, but it’s true. Semen somehow seems to clean up your digestive system. But did I ever get really sick after eating large amounts of semen? No, never. I don’t think there’s any reason for concern. You just gotta know your own limits.

A little postscript for those of you who aren’t familiar with my “work” - The 40-Loads session was not a gangbang. We collected semen from one and the same guy over a period of approximately 40 days (you’re never gonna guess why) and stored them in the freezer. The oral cumshot in the attached gallery was the last one of the batch and the only fresh one directly off the tap. Trust me doing it this way may be “safer” (no STDs etc) but I certainly doesn’t taste better than fresh semen. Jizz goes bad very quickly. Do not thaw and re-freeze! Unless you like hospitals a lot.