Alan_M: My girlfriend always swallows, and she has to put in a lot of effort to make me cum as i’m very resilient to oral (i’ve no idea why) it feels great but she can sometimes get lock jaw and tired arms etc… I think it’s all part of how your relationship is though. We’re both very determined to please each other and so both put in the effort. I would never ask her to swallow if I wasn’t willing to go down on her (something I love doing) but it’s a massive turn on when she does.

Roger: If you respect your girl then you will not let her to swallow it.

Gerd: It doesn’t make much difference to me. My girlfriend actually prefers to swallow so of course the law of diminishing returns forced me to prefer facials and pearl necklaces…She only lets me do facials though once a week or so.As for doing neither, well I think that is just simply wrong. I’ve had a few girlfriends in the past a bit uncomfortable with cum, but I have always been successful with that aspect and other sexual ones by simply helping the girls build self confidence, tend to their needs, and bring their sexuality to bloom. Of course, that can take months at times lol. But yes women should definitely swallow. I view those who don’t as a bit “cloistered” and worry they and you will miss out on other amazing aspects of sexuality.