Cum on Britney Swallows

This is the follow-up conversation to the previous e-mail exchange between me and concerned wifey Jen who was inquiring about her hubby’s desire for more anal and ass-to-mouth action.

Jen e-mailed back: I was just leaving work and thought I would check my emails. Thanks for all the advice. Really quite relieved and I feel that little more comfortable about things. I have never been described as GGG (good, giving & game) before – quite cute – I like it (naughty but nice I guess  To respond you your comments. He has a nice cock I have always liked it – big swollen top and a decent 7+ inches. Which is why i am surprised that once he is in I don’t find it that easy to take him further as once the head is in it should be easier right? Perhaps I should lay the lube on THICK as he is pretty good and loves to tongue and finger me there (blush – cant believe i just said that!). I am getting more intrigued just writing this. I think the enema idea is good, but never really know if I am going to have anal (as up to now it has been very rare) – though tonight it might be in the cards. Have you ever done it without? and the second bit? Do you really do the second bit back and forth regularly. what is it you like about it? Do you really think he is trying to humiliate me sexually. I like being submissive but never think of it as humiliation, perhaps thats why subconciously i did not suck him on sunday morning. I do love exploring with him and usually let him have his way with me so hopefully we can make this better and explore more – the intrigue is quite arousing. PS: It seems he thinks pretty highly of you. Since he mentioned you we have fucked like rabbits and I swear when he comes there is more of it! Thanks, Britney

My e-mail response: Hey Jen, and thanks for the follow-up mail!
Like you said, your husband’s cock is above average size but not exactly a freakish monster penis to be afraid of. And yes, once the tip of his cock is inside you it should be relatively easy to fit in the rest, however you’re the one setting the pace and you decide how deep you want him to go. – By all means, lay the lube on thick, that is always a good idea. I have experience with just using saliva for anal, I certainly works but may not be ideal for newbies. Spit will get the job done, but you need a lot of it. It’s a nice alternative for spur of the moment anal when you don’t have your tube of KY at hand.

In regards to the question “when to rinse out the rectum”, I hear you. How could you possibly be prepared all the time. Truth is you can’t. – You (like myself) don’t want to do an enema every single day/night. But, if you happen to be in the right mood, go ahead and prepare. Or if hubby annonces the desire earlier in the day, same thing, unless you’re not up for it. Then again, I’ve had plenty of anal sex without cleaning out my butt, instead just taking a quick shower beforehand. It’s a misconception that your rectum is incredibly filthy. Yes, sometimes a little poop comes out, but if you’re healthy and go to the toilet regularly you’ll probably be fine. Keep the lights on in the bedroom if you want to avoid any surprises! – Also enemas don’t have to be a hassle. Just squirt in some lukewarm water, go poop, repeat. That usually does the trick. Takes maybe 5 minutes. I’m gonna repeat myself here just to hammer home the point: The poo itself is not the turn on here for either of you. Your husband simply enjoys the submissive aspect of you being willing and dirty (kinky) enough to go from ass to mouth. If you warm to the idea you’ll have a ton of fun with this new technique.

Do I think he’s trying to humiliate sexually? Yes and no. In everyday life humiliation is not a good feeling. During consenting sex however it can be. Maybe I’m using the wrong word. You could call it degradation, submission, being really slutty, super kinky. You choose the words you like. I myself am comfortable with humiliation in the bedroom. It’s just a temporary agreement and fantasy. Monopoly has rules and is fun only because of the rules. Same goes for ass-to-mouth or dom/sub play in general. Only you two make your own rules. Nobody gets hurt emotionally or physically if you communicate right. But don’t bring the “talks” into the bedroom. This should happen before you do the deed. In the bedroom you just give feedback. Yes/no, too deep, just right, ouch… whatever you need to say in the heat of the moment. But no discussions!

I can tell you’re open minded, kinky and a woman many men would love to call their wife. Trust me, you’re special and to your husband a hot babe. Keep admitting those embarrassing little hang-ups you have, also make him clarify things, be clear yourself and remember that humor is the glue that holds you together when all else seems to break apart for a while. Next time a screwed up sexual thought pops into your mind, say it out loud and have a good laugh together. One confession leads to another and you’ll learn things about your spouse that make your sex and love-life more interesting, understandable and less scary. Enjoy!
Britney (Official website @ Cumtrainer.com)

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