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Britney, I could use your advice on a bit of a delicate matter.
My husband has told me that he has had some contact with you. I am not especially into porn but not that bothered if he watches it sometimes. However he did say you were very different and might have some thoughts.
He really likes anal sex. I don’t mind it because it makes me feel dirty but I only have the courage to do it when I am quite tipsy. We only have it v occasonally except this week we have done it twice and he is really keen for more. He is good with me and spends time on forplay especially licking my ass. I struggle though to take him further than half way. I also find it a bit uncomfortable but the feeling of naughtiness gives me just enough of a turn on to keep doing it. Can you help me take it a bit better so I can get more out of it? Also I have always thought of myself as open minded but this morning he asked me to suck him (I like Sunday morning lazy blowjobs). We had had a little bit of anal sex at the end last night and so I said after a shower but he said he wanted to do it without cleaning. I thought that was pretty gross which is when he told me about you. Am I being a prude? Anyway hope to hear from you,
Jeniffer

Hey Jen,
first of all you’re not a prude, quite the opposite from what I can tell by your e-mail. All men watch porn, if they say they don’t they just do secretly. So that’s not really worth the mention. Many men like anal, nothing wrong with that if it weren’t for the comparatively lower percentage of women who enjoy it. I’m sure the statistics are out there somewhere if you feel like googling. – You say you’re GGG (good, giving & game) when it comes to anal but you feel uncomfortable taking more than half his cock up your ass. Well then that’s where you draw the line (at least for the time being). No point in you letting him jam his nuts up your rectum if it causes you pain or discomfort. I assume your husband has an average sized penis, if not then his BIG cock may be the problem. – But let’s say he’s normally endowed, then good anal sex is achievable by practising relaxation, slow insertion and generous application of lube. He might be going too fast, he might be too dry (unlubricated) or you’re just scared about him going too deep and hurting you internally. With an average penis he’s not going to. Maybe quick enemas, just using warm water and going to the toilet before intercourse might relieve some of the internal “pressure” you might be feeling. Flushing out your rectum might also be a good idea in regards to what I’m going to address next.

You enjoy submission, you’re kinky and adventurous and your husband likes to roleplay with you in a more dominant position. He gets off on your sexual “humiliation” (just in bed I suppose, where it’s ok to break certain taboos and go a little “too far” as consenting adults). He does not mean to hurt you or cause you displeasure, he just gets off on your submissive behaviour. Now here’s the thing, he may be a little embarrassed about openly admitting that he’d enjoy ass-to-mouth intercourse. Meaning he fucks you anally, then you blow him. Speaking for myself, I enjoy that, and I enjoy going back to front repeatedly. Not because its dirty as in “I like poop”, not at all, but because the act feels “dirty” in your head. Ass-to-mouth does not mean you suck on dirty dick, it just means anal/oral in an alternating fashion.
Using enemas for example your ass would be sparkling clean. No worries there. Ass-to-mouth is a lot safer than following anal with vaginal intercourse. And obviously sucking cock that came out of someone else’s ass would be much more problematic than 1-on-1 ATM. But he’s not asking for a threesome. While I understand his request for next-day ass-to-mouth action like you described – nothing wrong or perverted about that – it’s still you who’s got to agree. Don’t force yourself, just see if there’s something in the back of your head that gets turned on just that little bit when thinking about the idea. Start from there, then go as far as you want or say no if you need to draw a line in the sand for this particular issue. You’re a married couple, experimentation is essential for long-term sexual fulfilment. No way around that. Just stay open to new ideas and keep talking. Crack open a bottle of Vodka if embarrassment gets in the way of honest and open communication. Most importantly, have fun with each other, regardless wether you just fantasize or actually go ahead and do IT, whatever IT may be.
Hope this helps,
Britney

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