Q: I recently had Anal sex for the first time with my boyfriend. We both wanted to do it but he came really quickly. This isn’t a problem with vaginal sex. Is there any way we could slow this down? Is this normal?

A: Yes what happened is normal. The desire alone would be enough to make most guys cum more quickly, add to that how tight your anus is compared to your pussy. The poor lad didn’t have a chance. And the answer to your problem is simple, if you continue to have Anal sex he will last longer and you both will enjoy it more. Persistance is key. He’s just caught up in the excitement of banging an anal virgin. But here’s a tip I’d like to share with you (and make sure you don’t tell this to men), I use anal sex as a “tool” in situations where I’m not in the mood for sex and just want to get it over with. It’s a surefire way to get you bf to blow his load within minutes. The only other technique that even gets close is deep throat oral sex. But you’ve got to be really skilled to pull that off. Otherwise it’ll have the opposite effect and draw things out unnecessarily. Anal sex is my speed orgasm technique of choice. For more in-depth advice and articles check out my website Cumtrainer.com